Is it really that serious???

Negativity – Lacking positive or constructive features, especially:
a. Unpleasant; disagreeable
b. Gloomy; pessimistic
c. Unfavorable or detrimental
d. Hostile or disparaging; malicious
As most of the readers know, I run around most of the time like a chicken with it’s head cut off seriously. I’m not complaining because I actually feel like I have self-worth when I keep busy. That may be weird to some then again somebody may feel the same way but that may not be the word they would use. Well during one of my many activities that I participate in, this particular activity is normally playful yet serious enough that ultimately ends with a productive outcome. This time it was like a dark cloud descended upon the activity. <SIGHS LOUDLY> I have noticed when things are playful and relaxed instead of tense and stressed more work gets done. And the bonus is everyone has a good time while they work, it’s a win-win situation really.
The question of the day is:
Why is it so hard for some people to be happy and embrace change? Especially if it’s positive? 
I mean I don’t get it… OK, I take that back, I do get up but dang. Everything is not meant to be filled with garbage truck juice and the world don’t revolve around you. It’s like they give themselves a speech before they enter into drama-free zone saying, “If I’m miserable everybody gonna be miserable!” It’s really not that serious. If you don’t like something don’t participate, if you dislike the people that are going to be there then don’t come, and lastly if everything around you pisses you off then you may be the cause of your own pistivity. (Yup I sure did slap that made up word in there. LOL) But seriously if everything around you breaks from your touch than your touch is too dang rough and you might need to evaluate that issue. It’s like an elephant in a china shop, he is gonna wreck the shop, literally. So if you know your mood sucks why inflict that negative mood on others. Disturbing the atmosphere is just wrong!

Then you have the folks that wish bad things to happen because things didn’t go their way. Wow, really is it that serious? Then when things look a little bleak you wait for the gossip mill to start up, just so you can so “I told y’all that was gonna happen.” Since my not complaining anymore blog a couple weeks ago, I decided I’m done worrying about others. And furthermore since I don’t like the way some people act, I affirm that I will always find the positive in a negative situation even if I’m surrounded by negative people. I’m done walking around upset on the verge of straight click-mode. I control my anger, no one else. I will not give the miserable my company, I’m too blessed to let the ignorant stress me. As long as I put my best foot forward the rest of the nonsense can kick bricks and that’s putting it mildly.

The crazy part is that I started this post on Friday and obviously it wasn’t meant for me to post it then because the weekend just kept getting more and more interesting by the second. Obstacles in the disguise people were thrown every which-a-way but the right way. So it gave me ammo to add more. Well deuces good people. Until next time…

Much Love ~Nika~
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One thought on “Is it really that serious???

  1. bigcheeze44 says:

    Yea it sounds like ur holding back still…but just remember dont give them the satisfaction…and there is nothing wrong with letting certain things go…and its not about letting them beat you…it is about beating yourself…

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